IF GOD IS MY FATHER, WHO IS MY MOTHER is a fascinating look at one woman's path to find spiritual equity between the genders. Each of her forward steps brings additional thought-provoking questions. The author gives a choice of answers through her own in-depth research. Paulas's stories are candid and relevant for women today in the 21st century. She speaks wisely about the gift that is female, and correlates profoundly the evolution of religious beliefs to the evolution of women within historical societies. She has raised four daughters within the context of a fundamental Christian church, based in the patriarchal systems of bible and religion. A system she is no longer aligned with but does not malign. Journey with her through this memoir of questions, revelations and proposed answers to the question "What if?"