Right Now, I'm Not There is not about heartbreak - it's about clarity. This book speaks to the moment many women quietly reach: the point where explaining, over-giving, and negotiating basic respect no longer feels worth the cost. It explores why women emotionally withdraw, not because they are bitter or broken, but because they have finally seen the pattern. Through direct commentary and unfiltered truth, this book examines:Why men often confuse access with effort How emotional labor is normalized and dismissed Why women stop explaining instead of continuing to argue The imbalance in modern relationships that benefits men more than women This is not a guide on how to fix men. It is an explanation of why women stop trying to. Right Now, I'm Not There gives language to what many women feel but rarely say aloud - the moment they choose peace over performance, distance over depletion, and self-respect over availability. This book is for women who are no longer angry - just done.