An Authority Transfer Relationship is a negotiated, consensual, non-egalitarian relationship style. The four authors of this book have lived and loved this way for over twenty years per couple. Lead Follow Love contains some of the most intimate and difficult topics the authors could find, answered with a brutal time-limit to force unfiltered and authentic responses. The authors' plan: . 30 questions . 30 minutes to answer each question . 4 individual journal-style answers per question . No discussion before or during writing . Spew out wisdom, tears and laughter . Deliver uncensored and authentic responses These are the authors' love letters to Authority Transfer relationships, shared with vulnerability. They hope their musings will be valuable but also that this book will inspire exploration, discussion, and the creation of customized relationships.