Finding Herself...I Was Not Her!, by Pamela James Coleman, takes the reader through the loss of a husband, the loss of a grandmother, legal issues resulting from the grandmother's care, and employment issues that largely resulted from the legal issues. You will gain a distinctive point of view; although these problems are not unusual in and of themselves, Pamela will give us an idea of what it was like for you as an individual to experience them. And that's the value of a book like this-this is not merely a story about someone who experiences these setbacks and gets through them; this is the story of a real person who pops off the page and gives you hope regardless of your circumstances. With that said, buckle your seat belts and be ready to cry, laugh, and experience the journey of life through the eyes of Pamela James Coleman as she finds herself.