The problems of the present day has made many young men and women to lose sight of what makes marriage responsibilities a happy activity that many are reluctant to go into it. They are seeing the cumbersomeness and many are scared; the struggle, the challenge and conflicts that make many marriages end up in divorce. Thus fear becomes a right because they have seen so many married people in tears and break ups. There is no need to marry who one does not have a measure of control or respect for. These values controls marriage more than physical cash. Where the later rules there will always be friction when it is not around or enough and may lead to divorce in many cases. This little book is an encouragement to those who must marry. It is about the right behavior which leads to the right choice. The summary lies in Gods instruction and obedience-the root to a happy marriage without fears or tears in a modern world.